Saturday, February 6, 2010

Blizzard Entertainment

Well, what I’m sure will become known as “The Blizzard of 2010” began earlier today. Well, I guess since I woke up, around 10. (Even though this post will get posted after 12AM on February 6, I’m still considering it to be February 5.)

It’s crazy shit outside. The snow is already around 2 feet, and I think we’re expected to get around 3 feet, maybe a little less. But I can’t honestly remember the last time it snowed this much. Maybe the Blizzard of ‘96, but I was too young, then, to fully understand the scale of it.

Anyway, I’ll be sure to post some pictures of it and stuff, tomorrow. Tonight, I’m going to be writing about Stephanie.

 

To paraphrase (because I’m getting tired of getting too caught up in the details): I suspected her of lying about living in Virginia, due to things posted/displayed on her Facebook. That suspicion was pushed further by things I heard from Molly, about two guys she was (as I understood it) kind of pitting against each other, which totally made her out as a drama queen. After Michele and Marie, I don’t suffer liars. So I deleted her from all my friends lists.

Last night, I got a nudge from her on MSN. I wasn’t at my computer at the time, so when I got back I simply replied, “Sup?” Here’s what happened after that:

 

Me: sup?

Stephanie: hey

Me: what's up, Stephanie?

Stephanie: Not much, why did you remove me off of lw?lolol

Me: uh, 'cause you lied to me?

Stephanie: about?

Me: well, for one
Me: living in Virginia

Stephanie: I did

Me: it's cool and all, i don't resent you or anything
Me: i just don't tolerate liars for friends

Stephanie: Josh I did live in VA! I moved couple months ago.
Stephanie: Thats why I know allot about Vriginia
Stephanie: and who told you this?

Me: oh no one told me
Me: i figured it out
Me: you still acted like you lived here, though

Stephanie: because i miss being in VA, thats all.
Stephanie: i never lied to you
Stephanie: but okay if you are going to act that way..

Me: lying by omission is still lying
Me: act like what?
Me: you won't make this about me
Me: it's not my fault
Me: you chose what you did and didn't tell me
Me: that was not my decision

Stephanie: i thought you knew i was cali

Me: so don't for one second think you can try to make me the guilty one in this

Stephanie: i thought i told you
Stephanie: where have you been?


Me: even when i brought up how it was funny that you said you lived in VA and still did things on facebook that were related to CA?
Me: you completely changed the topic when i brought it up
Me: so don't gimme that
Me: i don't buy into your little drama queen lies, Stephanie
Me: so you might as well stop now

Stephanie: and you are pissed off because of that? 
Stephanie: its not a big deal
Stephanie: i never lied to you

Me: i'm not pissed off, no
Me: i simply don't tolerate this, like i said

Stephanie: i visit VA like every 2 months
Stephanie: so i still feel like i'm home there
Stephanie: so you can think whatever

Me: i will think what i'm relatively sure of
Me: and that is that you like to start drama
Me: if that's not true, then you at least like people to think what you let them think, even if it's untrue
Me: either way, you weren't honest about who you are, and because of that, we won't be talking anymore

Stephanie: Josh what are you talking about?
Stephanie: what about me.
Stephanie: i used to like you but the way you are acting is very childish

 

I’m so proud of myself for sticking up for myself. The old me would’ve backed down and simply forgiven her, probably even apologized to her. But this was just one of those times that really reinforced who I am, now. And it feels so much better. Like a refresher.

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